Just Doing It

Guys can fake it. I can recount that I have done it after working a full day, cleaning the meantime mess enough to do supper, made and cleaned that up, reading to kids and supervising teeth brushing. I did it even though reading a few paragraphs and falling asleep would be a much bigger turn-on. I've done it to keep the peace. I've done it to avoid the calendaring of "how long it's been since last time..." Yes, guys can fake it. Just because it stands up and stuff comes out does not make the other person a sex goddess. It doesn't take a lot of skill to complete the male cycle. A pile of cold rocks can pretty much do that when the hormones are upswinging.

But then there's love making. There's connection. AND there's physical arousal and intense pleasure. There's doing it not to pass a particular obligatory female neuro threshold, but for no purpose whatever except to do it.  Just doing it. Especially post-vas.

There should be more of this for everyone.